Refining Moments

Yeah, you read it right. The title is Refining Moments, not Defining Moments. It’s not a typo. Since refining is the process of purifying a substance that is almost in a usable form to a cleaner more usable form, it captures the essence of what I know is true. That I am in a constant state of change, being separated from my worldly, contaminated self, into the likeness of Christ, so that I can be of some use in this world. It is a delicate and lengthy process (longer for some of us than others), one that requires attention, intention, patience, and special guidance. Unlike a defining moment, where you have some major revelation about your direction, purpose, or even past mistakes, refining moments are the smaller, more subtle times that are used together for the purpose of converting us into something better. If you happen upon my blog, you’ll discover that these are just the ordinary thoughts of a woman who is willing to submit herself to constant scrutiny and inspection by an Authority greater than all others, in hopes of learning, growing, and attempting to reflect the perfect love of Jesus to others. It’s here that I hope to capture some of those tiny moments that have left a lasting impression on me. Perhaps I’ll celebrate a time when I saw the reflection of my Refiner in another, or retell a special or funny moment I experienced with somebody I love. Maybe they’ll be times that remind me I’m not using the full power available to me in my daily challenges, or extending to others the grace that’s been extended to me. There will surely be many stories of where I have fallen so very short of the mark. Whatever you find, I hope it encourages you.